If you read my other blog you know that I am both a happily married woman as well as a conservative Christian. As a Christian, I feel strongly about a lot of things, and one of those is that sex in marriage is a good and wonderful thing, and that God gave us sex as a gift to help us draw closer in our marriages. But, if you read my blog you also know that I have a 2-year-old and a 3-month-old, both born via c-section. So, I have spent the majority of the last three years either pregnant or recovering from a c-section or nursing or some combination of those. Or dealing with a teething baby. Or a baby with a cold. Or a baby with the stomach flu. You moms know what I mean. Do you know what having a 2-year-old and a 3-month-old does to your sex life, even when you try to make it a priority?
Thanks to my involvement over at the Product Review Place, I had the opportunity to review a product from Eden Fantasys. (Note- although there's nothing objectionable on the Eden Fantasys page, it's still probably not work-appropriate, and I wouldn't click on it if you have a small child hanging over your shoulder). I emailed the very nice person from Eden Fantasys and told him that I would like to review a product, but that I was fairly new to the whole adult toys thing and needed recommendations for "starter products". He recommended the sensual products line, so my husband and I went and checked it out.
Eden Fantasys is organized by category- so you can easily find what you're looking for, whether it's a sex toy for use as a couple or a vibrator or lingerie or something from the sensual love line. Inside each category things are further subcategorized. In the sensual love line there are links to massage accessories, bath items and edible treats. We really liked the product reviews for the items, it helped to know what real people thought about the products that they had purchased. Another helpful feature of the site is the safety index. This tells you if the product that you're looking at has ingredients like latex in it, so if there's something you're sensitive to, it's easy to identify and avoid those items.
I'm not going to tell you what product we ended up choosing and reviewing, but let's say we were pleased. Thanks to teething kids who don't sleep well, we haven't had the opportunity to test the product as thoroughly as we would like, but we have plans to do so soon. :) I have to say, even the act of going through the site and choosing a product that looked fun to us was a good experience for us as a couple. It helped get our minds off of parenting for a while and remind us that we are first and foremost husband and wife and lovers. We had fun choosing the product and waiting for it to arrive and I had fun sending sexy messages to my husband with hints about the evening ahead when the package did arrive. The packaging was very discreet, just in a plain box, with nothing to indicate that the item inside is from Eden Fantasys. The shipping label just said "Web Merchants". A similarly discreet note shows up on your credit card when you place the order, so you don't have to worry about that either.
So, if you're looking for something fun to spice up your sex life, try the Eden Fantasys site. You wont be disappointed!